Fostering curiosity in kids (and their parents) since 2011

Posts tagged ‘parenting’

“Why does Santa miss some kids?”

While I enjoy all the little games around Santa, and I will be sorry to see them go, it is much harder to teach your child that it’s important to care for others when your child’s world is populated by magical beings who are perfectly capable of doing all that work on their own.

“How can someone be my friend if I don’t like them?”

At every organized function The Five-Year-Old attends, someone invariably says, “Remember, we are all friends here.” It’s a lovely idea, and one that The Five-Year-Old used to agree with completely. But lately she has started to question it, because (shhh!) she has figured out that she doesn’t actually like everyone she meets. How’s a parent supposed to help her child navigate that?

Trophies for Everyone!

This week, I’ve been mulling over the Trophies for Everyone approach to childhood. Granted, a lot of life is simply showing up. But eventually I’m going to need my daughter to want to do more than that.