Pack of Dorks
By Beth Vrabel
Age Range: 8-12
Sky Pony Press, 2015
If I could change one thing about parenting, it would be to have it commonly accepted that parents & kids should keep reading books together well into middle school. My fifth grader and I both read Pack of Dorks this past weekend (she first, me second) and it opened up so many excellent conversations about friendship, bullying, and having the courage to be your own person.
By turns hilarious, painful, and wise, this book is above all real. It’s so easy to relate to Lucy, Sam, and April. We all know Beckys, and many of us have been Becky at one point in our lives.
I especially love how Beth Vrabel makes it clear that being a good friend is something you have to learn. You will make mistakes. Other people will hurt you by making mistakes of their own. The trick is to grow past it.
As my daughter told me when I asked her if she would have given Becky a second chance, “I think you have to give kids a second chance. And a third. And a fourth. You never know when they will actually start meaning it.”
I don’t know if I completely agree. But it’s making for excellent conversations, and I’m learning a lot about how my daughter thinks and where she’s at on her middle school journey. We will be talking about this book and the lessons we can learn from it for days.
And that’s one of the greatest things about reading books with your middle schoolers. You can break open some of these deeply personal issues from a not-so-personal angle. Not having to bring up the names of specific classmates is so helpful. Using book characters instead gives your child a chance to think about how he or she would respond before a similar friendship situation comes up in the real world.
Parenting would be much harder without books like this one.
(Parenting note: This book pairs especially well with Little Girls Can Be Mean by Michelle Anthony, M.A., Ph.D & Reyna Lindert, Ph.D.)
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